The Straight Line to Happiness: Why We Add Extra Stops on Life’s Journey

I always thought the shortest distance from point A to point B was a straight line. Geometry taught me that. GPS reminds me of that. But when it comes to life, somehow we humans insist on taking the scenic route—with detours, pit stops, and sometimes a full U-turn.

Have you ever caught yourself saying things like:

• “First I’ll work this job and save enough money, then I’ll do what I really love.”
• “I’ll spend more time with my kids… once I’m financially stable.”
• “I’ll visit my parents when work finally slows down.”

Sound familiar? Yeah, me too.

We convince ourselves that happiness, love, or fulfillment comes after we hit certain milestones. First the degree, then the dream job. First the money, then the family time. First the hustle, then the life we actually want.

The problem? Sometimes all those pit stops become the actual journey—and we never arrive at the destination we imagined.

Why do we do this? Maybe because the straight path isn’t always easy. Sometimes it means breaking the mold or disappointing the peanut gallery called society. Other times, it’s easier to grab the low-hanging fruit—money, status, or a “perfect” image—than to admit what we truly want.

Think about it: some people choose to prioritize family dinners over late nights at work, even if it means less pay. Others choose to live in a smaller house just to be closer to their parents. Society might call that “settling.” Social media might call that “unambitious.” But let’s be honest—who cares what society’s algorithm says?

Here’s the truth: you already have the ability to create the life you want. You don’t need another ten steps, a million dollars, or a shiny trophy to give you permission.

Want to spend more time with your kids? Do it.
Want to pick up that hobby you’ve been secretly daydreaming about? Do it.
Want to live in the mountains with Wi-Fi and a coffee maker? Go for it.

Sure, sacrifices may be required. Not every choice comes with unlimited options. But many times, the real barrier isn’t money, time, or logistics—it’s fear. Fear of breaking the mold. Fear of being judged. Fear of actually being happy.

Here’s the twist: happiness isn’t waiting at the end of the road. It’s available at every mile marker—you just have to stop postponing it.

So maybe the shortest line between A and B isn’t just a math rule. Maybe it’s the way to live life: stop adding unnecessary pit stops, and start walking directly toward what matters most.

After all, what’s the point of a straight line if we’re too busy circling around it?

Your Turn: What’s one thing you’ve been postponing for “someday” that you could start today? Share it in the comments—I’d love to hear your thoughts. And if this post resonated with you, subscribe for more reflections on living life with purpose, courage, and a little humor.