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  • You’re Always a Parent: Why the Job Never Ends (Even After They Grow Up)

    You’re Always a Parent: Why the Job Never Ends (Even After They Grow Up)

    My parents like to say, “You’re a grown man now — you’re your own responsibility.”
    And honestly… they’re not wrong.

    There comes a point in life when you’re responsible for yourself. You pay your own bills, make your own decisions, and deal with the consequences — good or bad. That’s not a bad thing. That’s just life doing what life does.

    What I don’t agree with is the idea that a parent’s responsibility somehow expires when a child grows up.

    You never stop being a parent.
    You never stop being your child’s mom or dad.
    That status? It’s permanent. No expiration date. No return policy.

    Does your responsibility magically end when they turn 18? Of course not. Yes, they need to learn independence. Yes, they need to stand on their own two feet. But loving them, caring for them, worrying about them just a little too much? That never goes away.

    You may not always be able to help in the same ways. Maybe you can’t invest in their next grand startup dream. Maybe buying them a house when they get married isn’t realistic. Maybe they moved far enough away that you can’t show up at a moment’s notice anymore (thanks a lot, geography).

    But none of that means you stop caring.
    None of that means you stop loving.
    And it definitely doesn’t mean you stop being their parent.

    Your role may change. Your abilities may shift. Sometimes you take a step back instead of stepping in. But your heart? Your heart stays all in.

    Your child will always be your child — and in some way, they will always be your responsibility.

    In many ways, parenting mirrors how God loves us. No matter how far we drift, how badly we mess up, how old we get, or how stubborn we become — we’re never forgotten. We’re never abandoned. We’re always in our Father’s heart.

    And as parents, there’s something powerful to learn from that.

    Our job doesn’t end. It evolves.

    For those who don’t consider themselves believers, think about it this way: don’t you still want the universe to be on your side? That’s what parents are. That’s what we’re meant to be for our kids — the constant in their corner.

    They might outgrow the material support we can provide. They might not need our money, advice, or solutions anymore. But they will always need us to be on their side.

    Because no matter how grown they are…
    They still need the universe behind them.

    And to us parents — that universe is called love.

    If this resonated with you, I’d love to hear your thoughts.
    How has your role as a parent changed over time?

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    Because parenting doesn’t end — and neither does love.

  • Pockets of Doubt Are Proof of Your Strength

    Pockets of Doubt Are Proof of Your Strength

    No matter how content you are with your life—no matter how good things are, how much progress you’ve made, or how deeply you’ve accepted who you are—there will still be moments when you feel unworthy of the life you’ve been given.

    There will always be pockets of time when negative thoughts sneak in. Thoughts that whisper you’re broken, that you’re not enough, that somehow you don’t deserve what you have. Every so often, the question “Why me?” shows up uninvited. And it doesn’t ask for permission—it just appears.

    It happens to everyone.

    No matter how put together you are, how wealthy you are, or how successful you may seem, life can still hit you sideways. A car accident. A bad diagnosis. A sudden loss. Death is one of the few guarantees in life, and at some point, you will grieve—regardless of your status, strength, or preparation.

    These pockets of doubt don’t always come from big, dramatic moments either. Sometimes they show up in the small stuff: misplacing your keys, kids talking back, bills piling up, or people not believing in your dreams. Even when you’re mentally strong, emotionally aware, and doing “all the right things,” those moments can still find you.

    I know them well.

    For me, they often appear when I’m facing a difficult task because of my blindness. That’s when the thoughts try to creep in: Why me? Why does my life have to be harder? Why am I struggling with something that seems so simple for others?

    Here’s the important part though—those emotions are manageable.

    You may never fully eliminate them, but you can learn how to handle them.

    This is where I like to borrow a page from Happy Gilmore and go to my “happy place.” I remind myself of what I do well. I think about everything I’ve already overcome. I reflect on the challenges that once felt impossible but are now just chapters in my story.

    The truth is, the difficulty you’re facing right now exists because you’re capable of handling it.

    Whether you believe in God, the universe, or something in between, challenges don’t show up randomly. Sometimes they’re meant to teach you. Sometimes they’re there to redirect you. Other times, they force you to pivot, adapt, and take a route you never would have chosen—but end up needing.

    The point is not to get discouraged.

    Even when it feels like everything is stacked against you, trust that you have the ability to move through it.

    I learned this lesson clearly through jiu-jitsu: be patient and move with purpose. Some situations take time to resolve. Some require extra focus, discipline, and humility. Things may look overwhelming when you first step up to them—but you’ve already lost if you tell yourself you can’t before you even begin.

    So when those pockets of negativity appear, pause.

    Tell yourself: I can handle this. Remind yourself that you’re doing the best you can. Practice patience. Take it one step at a time.

    Before you know it, you’ll look back and realize—you’re already on the other side.

    If this message resonated with you, share it with someone who might need the reminder today. Leave a comment below and let me know how you work through moments of self-doubt. And if you’re on a journey of growth, resilience, or rebuilding confidence, stick around—there’s more to come.

  • Be Confident in Yourself: The Quiet Power That Can Change Everything

    Be Confident in Yourself: The Quiet Power That Can Change Everything

    I was reminded recently that sometimes all you really need is a little confidence… and the rest has a funny way of falling into place.

    Starting a podcast and speaking with people from all walks of life has shown me how powerful a positive mindset truly is. Even through tragedy, loss, or hardship, confidence can become the bridge that carries us forward.

    There are people who’ve faced tremendous trauma.
    People who’ve experienced unbelievable hardship.
    People who’ve been forgotten, overlooked, or dismissed by society.

    And yet — some of these very people rise from the ashes and become something remarkable. Not because life did them any favors, but because they believed in themselves when no one else did. They tuned out the world’s negativity and turned inward toward strength.

    As I’ve connected with people who are blind, disabled, living with chronic pain, or dealing with long-term medical challenges, I’ve learned something profound:
    They still want to be part of this world. They still want to contribute. They still want to live with meaning.

    The common thread that runs through all their stories?
    Confidence.
    A quiet belief that they matter.
    A determination not to let society define their limitations.
    A refusal to hand their power to anyone else.

    These individuals are doing incredible things — competing in sports, advocating for the disabled community, raising awareness, creating music, hosting podcasts, building platforms, and lifting others up along the way.

    Because sometimes the best way to lift yourself… is to lift someone else.

    So today’s message is simple:
    Be confident in yourself. No matter the circumstances.
    Life may challenge you, delay you, or test you, but there is something out there for you — a purpose, a path, a place where you belong.

    Keep walking toward it, even if the world can’t see the journey you’re on.

    If this message inspired you, please share it with someone who needs encouragement today.

    And if you want to hear real conversations with real people overcoming real challenges, check out my podcast, The Angry Asian Uncles. We highlight stories of resilience, humor, growth, and the human spirit.

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  • Why Your Worth Isn’t Measured by Followers: Reclaiming Your Identity in a Social Media World

    Why Your Worth Isn’t Measured by Followers: Reclaiming Your Identity in a Social Media World

    These days, it feels like every young person wants to be some kind of social media influencer. Maybe they think it’s the fastest way to make money, change the world, or earn instant fame. Maybe they believe that the more followers they have, the more important they become.

    And sadly, some people even think they need followers just to exist.

    But let’s slow down for a second.
    Society has changed so much that we sometimes forget there was a world before social media.

    Back then, you were important not because thousands of strangers knew your name, but because you did good things. You helped people. You showed kindness. You showed up.

    We all had zero followers.
    We didn’t need likes, subscribers, or comments to validate our existence.
    We didn’t need the internet to remind us we were enough.
    We believed it ourselves.

    Today, the standards have shifted. If you don’t have followers, friends online, or subscribers on your channel, it’s easy to feel like you’re somehow “less than.”

    But let me tell you the truth:

    You are not a loser because you have no followers.
    You are not invisible because you’re not trending.
    Your worth has nothing to do with a number on a screen.

    Being a good human being is what makes you valuable.
    Your actions. Your character. Your heart.

    Do things because they make you happy.
    Do things because they’re right.
    Do things because that’s the kind of person you want to be.

    Don’t hand the remote control of your life to other people — especially strangers on the internet.

    Yes, it’s perfectly fine to appreciate your followers and be thankful for the subscribers who support you. There is beauty in community and connection.

    But at the end of the day, you must walk the path meant for you, not the one you think will earn the most likes.

    If this message reminded you of your true worth, share it with someone who needs the same encouragement. And if you enjoy honest, humble reflections like this, follow the blog or subscribe — not for the numbers, but to grow together with purpose and heart.

  • Sit With the Outcasts: Why Your Worth Isn’t Defined by Followers or Fame

    Sit With the Outcasts: Why Your Worth Isn’t Defined by Followers or Fame

    We humans love to judge way too fast.
    We judge people based on how they look, how they talk, where they live, what they drive, and even what degree hangs on their wall.

    But I’m always reminded of the story in the Bible where Jesus sits and dines with the outcasts of society. And whether you’re religious or not, that image says something powerful.

    Because somewhere along the way, we started acting differently.
    We want to sit at the cool kids’ table.
    We want to be invited into the VIP rooms of life.
    We want to hang with the “in crowd,” as if that somehow upgrades our membership status as human beings.

    But think about it:
    Why do they seem more important than you?
    Because you handed them that power.

    If everyone stopped giving that “cool crowd” special status, they’d just be regular people — same as you and me.
    Their cars, homes, and bank accounts don’t make them superior.
    If anything, idolizing their material things only shrinks your own confidence.

    And here’s the flip side:
    If you happen to be blessed with abundance and choose to look down on others because they have less, then you’re no better than the very “lowly” people you think you’re above.
    Your mindset, not your money, makes you small.

    So maybe the lesson is this:
    Be like Jesus at that table.
    And if you’re not religious, then be the cool kid who sits with the nerds, the misfits, the quiet ones, the overlooked.
    Use your influence — however big or small — to uplift others and let them shine.

    If this message spoke to you, share it with someone who feels pressured to fit in or measure their worth by likes and followers. And if you want more honest, humble reflections like this, follow the blog or subscribe — not for the numbers, but to walk this journey of growth together.