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  • Why Me? Turning Life’s Hard Questions into Personal Power

    Why Me? Flipping the Script on Life’s Toughest Questions

    “Why me?” That’s the question we ask when life throws us a curveball—or ten. I’ve asked it many times. Actually, I asked it today.

    Why am I blind?
    Why am I broke?
    Why am I alone?

    Why me?

    But maybe that’s the wrong question. Maybe we should be asking: Why not me?

    It’s kind of like turning a frown upside down. When we ask “why,” we often assume something’s wrong—like we’ve been unfairly singled out by the universe. But problems without solutions just become stress. And stress, as you might’ve noticed, doesn’t fix anything—it just drains your battery and your soul.

    So, let’s flip the script.

    Instead of asking why—ask what.

    • What can I do because I’m blind?
    • What can I do because I’m broke?
    • What can I do because I’m alone?

    Let’s turn that pain into power. That problem into purpose. That frustration into fuel.

    I know—it’s easier said than done. Asking someone to turn their challenges into strength can feel like asking them to turn coal into diamonds. But you know what? That’s literally how diamonds are made: with pressure, time, and grit. So yes, it’s hard. But it’s not impossible.

    One of my biggest pet peeves is when people point out problems without offering solutions. It creates stress, negativity, and leaves people hanging. But when someone acknowledges a challenge and offers help? That’s gold.

    Like when someone says,
    “Sir, this place is crowded—can I guide you to where you need to go?”
    Boom—problem acknowledged, solution offered. That’s service. That’s kindness. That’s what makes life easier for everyone.

    Think about it:
    If the food’s wrong at a restaurant, the server doesn’t just say “Yeah, that’s tough.” They say, “Let me fix that for you.”
    If your team’s short-staffed, and a coworker says, “I can stay a bit longer to help”—that’s someone who gets it.
    If you see someone struggling, just offering to help them find what they’re looking for changes the whole experience.

    Nobody likes to be left hanging. Not even you.
    So when you ask “Why me?”—don’t leave yourself hanging.

    Be the one who steps up for yourself. Offer your own soul a helping hand.
    You noticed a problem—great. Now do yourself the courtesy of working on a solution.

    So next time you ask, “Why me?”
    Take a breath.
    Stay grateful for what you do have.
    And ask:

    • What can I learn from this?
    • What can I do better?
    • What strengths can I grow because of this limitation?

    Because here’s the truth: every adversity carries the seed of a greater strength.

    Your limitations don’t define you—they refine you. They sharpen the parts of you that need to shine.

    You’ve got this. Diamonds aren’t born overnight—but they are made under pressure. Keep shining.

  • Stop Waiting for the Perfect Moment: Life Lessons from Procrastination and Missed Shots

    I remember my college days vividly—especially the nights I crammed right before an exam, waiting until the last minute to start a project, and pulling all-nighters like it was some kind of rite of passage. I wish I could say I aced all my classes and graduated with honors. Truth is, I barely scraped by. And honestly? That habit didn’t end with college—I started scraping by in life, too.

    Looking back, I think part of it came from a lack of direction and discipline. The other part? Feeling completely overwhelmed. Sometimes when you’re too sheltered growing up, you don’t develop the coping skills needed to face the real world head-on. That was me—great at memorizing flashcards, not so great at handling stress, deadlines, or real-life decisions.

    Now as an adult, I’ve had to learn life’s lessons the hard way. And yet, even now, I still procrastinate. Most of the time, it’s because I’m scared—scared of making the wrong decision, scared of failing, scared that I don’t have what it takes. So instead of taking action, I freeze. I don’t even start.

    Sometimes, all my focus gets sucked into one specific thing—like waiting for a job interview result—and everything else gets swept aside. It’s not because I’m lazy, but because I’m stuck. I’m anxious. I feel like I can’t move forward until that one thing moves first. And sometimes, it’s as simple and real as not having enough money to pay the bills, which can feel paralyzing.

    That’s exactly how I feel right now. I want to be motivated, but it seems like the world isn’t cooperating. Things aren’t moving at my speed. Take the interview I had last week—I’ve been anxiously waiting for the outcome. It feels like life is in limbo until I hear back, and that limbo is exhausting.

    But here’s what I’ve come to realize: sometimes the ball isn’t in your court, and all you can do is shift focus. Waiting in anxiety won’t make decisions come any faster. We need to accept the moment we’re in and move forward with the things we can control.

    It’s okay to feel scared, anxious, even drained—especially when you’ve poured all your energy into one thing. But we can’t just stand there, staring up at the shot we took, hoping it lands. Like in basketball, whether the ball swishes through the net or bounces off the rim, the game continues. You either get ready for the rebound or sprint back on defense.

    You can’t win the game by standing still.

    This reminder is as much for me as it is for you: stay focused, stay moving. Don’t wait until the last second to get into position—it’ll cost you the game. Life doesn’t always move at our pace, but that doesn’t mean we stop moving altogether.

    We might not always control the outcome, but we do control how we show up for the next play.

  • Show Me the Money—But What’s It Really Worth?

    “Show Me the Money!”… But What’s It Really Worth?

    You know that iconic line from Jerry Maguire—“Show me the money!”? Classic. And let’s be honest, it feels like money is always at the center of everything.

    I grew up in a middle-class household. My parents immigrated to the U.S. with barely anything in their pockets, just big dreams and the kind of grit that doesn’t come with a price tag. So yeah, I heard my fair share of: “We can’t get that—it’s too expensive,” or “No, we don’t have the money for that.” And as I got older, I realized something deeper was at play: money didn’t just buy things—it bought status. At least, that’s what the world wanted me to believe.

    Culturally, and maybe a little emotionally too, money seemed to equal power, value, and respect. If you didn’t have it? Well, it felt like society decided you weren’t as important, as capable, or as worthy of a good life.

    That mindset stuck with me more than I’d like to admit. After college, I watched how we were suddenly compared by salaries instead of report cards. First it was grades, then college acceptances, then internships. Now it’s about how much you make, what neighborhood you live in, the car you drive, and which resort you took your family to over spring break. And guess what? Even when you do “measure up,” it can still feel… hollow.

    Let me be clear: I have nothing against money. Money is a powerful tool. It gives you choices. It helps you provide for your family. It enables you to give back. But what I can’t get behind is the idea that money defines your worth.

    I am a valuable human being—with or without money. And let me tell you, that’s a reminder I have to give myself more often than I’d like. Money doesn’t define who I am. It just shapes some of the options I have. And honestly, I’m content with a simple life. I don’t need a mansion or a Lamborghini—especially because I’m blind, and let’s face it, I can’t drive anyway.

    Lately, as I learn more about financial freedom, building wealth, and growing that so-called “money snowball,” I’ve started to see something bigger than just numbers. True wealth isn’t about having the most—it’s about using what you do have to lift others up. Whether it’s helping family, supporting friends, or giving back to the community, that’s what gives wealth its meaning.

    If all I’m doing is chasing money for fame or power, then that’s just an endless treadmill with no off switch. But if I can use money as a tool to serve, to support, and to fulfill my purpose—even in small ways—then that’s a path worth walking.

    I’m not here to be the richest guy in the room. I just want to live with intention. If I can take care of my responsibilities—those sacred assignments God’s entrusted me with—then I’m doing something right. We all have different capacities, different talents, and different definitions of success. But I believe we’ve all been given some form of abundance. Sometimes we just have to open our eyes to see it.

    Here’s something I truly believe: when we show that we can manage what we already have—when we’re grateful, responsible, and generous with it—more comes. It’s like a universal law… or maybe just good parenting.

    Think about it: as kids, when we show we can handle chores and be responsible with our allowance, we get rewarded. Maybe even with that puppy we’ve been begging for. In school, if we manage our workload well, we earn good grades and honors. In college, proving ourselves in an internship can lead to a full-time job. At work, doing well in your current role might lead to a raise or a promotion.

    I think money works the same way. If you can show that you respect it, understand its value, and use it for good—not waste—it, then more will come. Not just more money, but more peace. More joy. A truly richer life.So yes—show me the money—but show me the meaning, too.

  • Honoring Real-Life Heroes: Finding the Superhero Within on Memorial Day

    Happy Memorial Day.

    Today in America, we take a moment to honor and remember the brave individuals who made the greatest sacrifice—not just for their families and friends, but for an entire nation. These are people who showed extraordinary courage and selflessness. Their strength came not just from training or duty, but from a mindset rooted in purpose, confidence, and heart.

    They believed in something bigger than themselves—and they acted on it.

    When I think about these heroes, I can’t help but compare them to superheroes. Not the ones with capes, laser eyes, or the ability to fly (though, let’s be honest, that would be cool). I’m talking about real superheroes—the ones defined not by their powers, but by their principles. The ones who embody courage, determination, and a relentless drive to do what’s right, even when it’s hard.

    Truth is, you don’t need super speed or mutant healing to be a hero. Sometimes, it’s just about showing up. Fighting for what you believe in. Standing up for someone else. Pushing through your own pain so someone else can find peace.

    And in that sense, maybe we all have a little superhero in us.

    Some people seem to tap into that inner power more easily than others. But I believe that if we quiet the noise, focus, and truly try, we can all access it. That quiet strength. That spark of resilience. That ability to keep moving forward even when life feels like it’s working overtime to knock us down.

    Even Jesus said we have the power to move mountains and walk on water—we just need to believe.

    Now, I get it. Believing isn’t always easy. Life has a funny way of piling on the doubts, the fears, the setbacks… and sometimes, a mountain of stress, emails, and unpaid bills too. I’ve been there. We all have.

    But here’s the thing: belief doesn’t have to be loud. It can be a whisper. A small choice. A moment of courage. And sometimes, when our own belief wavers, we can help someone else find theirs. Or let someone help us find ours.

    So today, as we honor the heroes who gave everything, let’s also honor the everyday bravery in ourselves and others. Let’s remind ourselves—and each other—that even in a world full of chaos, we still have the power to choose courage, kindness, and hope.

    Because maybe being a hero isn’t about saving the world. Maybe it’s just about showing up with heart.

  • Believe in Yourself: The Secret Ingredient to Achieving Success

    Believe in Yourself: The Secret Ingredient to Achieving Success

    Over the past few weeks, I’ve been reminded of something simple yet incredibly powerful: believing in yourself is half the battle.

    If you truly want to achieve success—whether it’s landing a new job, crushing a personal goal, or reaching a career milestone—you have to believe it’s possible. Visualize the outcome. Picture yourself crossing that finish line, receiving that job offer, or celebrating a well-earned victory.

    This week, my goal was to ace a selection interview for a new account. I didn’t just “hope” things would work out—I prepared with the mindset that I would succeed. I researched the location, familiarized myself with its operations, and even placed a deposit on essential equipment. In my mind, the account was already mine. That mental picture kept me focused and energized.

    Of course, I stayed grounded. Confidence doesn’t mean arrogance—it means being ready. I walked into the interview knowing I had done my homework. I was able to confidently present myself to the panel because I believed in my ability to deliver. And while I’m optimistic about the outcome, I also know that if it doesn’t go my way, I gave it my best shot. And I’ll be even more prepared for the next opportunity.

    Many of us set goals, make vision boards, or write down New Year’s resolutions—but we often forget the most important step: truly believing we can achieve them. Goal setting without belief is like owning a car without an engine. It looks good, but it won’t get you far.

    You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take (thanks for the reminder, Wayne Gretzky… and yes, Michael Scott). If something matters enough for you to put in the time and effort, then do it right. Do it with intention. Do it with belief.

    So, here’s the takeaway: believe in yourself. Back it up with preparation, stay humble, keep a positive mindset—and don’t forget to smile along the way. It’s amazing how far that combo can take you.