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  • Why Me? Discovering the Hidden Strength Within

    Why Me? Discovering the Hidden Strength Within

    Sometimes, I know you’ve asked yourself the same question I ask myself all the time: “Why me?”

    This simple question shows up everywhere—in movies, in TV shows, and most often, in the quiet corners of our own minds. It’s that silent question, almost like a sigh, but it carries so much weight.

    It pops up in small, everyday frustrations—like spilling your drink or forgetting where you left your keys—and in the heavy storms of life: not being able to pay the bills, facing divorce, or losing someone you love.

    And yet, here’s the truth: none of it is more than you can handle. God doesn’t give you battles you’re unequipped to face. Yes, in the moment it feels terrible. Yes, the pain, sadness, and suffering are real. But they won’t break you.

    We’ve all heard the saying: “What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger.” It’s overused, maybe even cliché—but it’s survived this long because it’s true.

    The challenges in your life aren’t punishments, and they’re not random. They were placed before you because you already carry the power to overcome them. That hidden power you didn’t know you had—it’s your superpower. Think of every superhero story: the hero discovers their gift only when they’re forced to rise up and face impossible odds. That’s you. That’s all of us.

    It may not happen overnight. Just like the X-Men needed years to train their mutant powers, we too need time to sharpen and learn how to wield our strength. But it’s there, waiting inside you.

    Your difficulties are just a snapshot of your present life—not the whole story. Yes, you need to accept the present, but your future? It’s still unwritten, still open. And there is always a way forward. Sometimes the resolution doesn’t look like the one you hoped or dreamed of, but if you’re open to it, there will be light at the end of the tunnel.

    From a faith perspective, sometimes God’s plan carries you through challenges in ways you didn’t expect. He’s given you the superpower, but He may guide you to use it differently than you imagined. Even Superman has kryptonite. Strength doesn’t mean invincibility—it means being able to keep going, even with limits.

    The most important thing? Stay open. Don’t cling stubbornly to just one outcome. Life offers many routes from point A to point B. If you’re willing to take the detours, to circle around when necessary, you won’t stay stuck. You won’t be forever haunted by “Why me?” Instead, you’ll move forward, one step at a time, with the power that was already inside you.

  • Manifesting Miracles, Transformers, and the Law of Attraction (Through the Eyes of a Kid and a Dad)

    Manifesting Miracles, Transformers, and the Law of Attraction (Through the Eyes of a Kid and a Dad)

    So recently, I was reading about the Law of Attraction—not the art of seduction, but the idea of attracting the things you want in life through mindset and belief.

    Some people think of it as manifesting something out of thin air, like magic or voodoo. Others dismiss it as pure hocus-pocus. But I believe there’s a truth woven into this mindset—a kind of spiritual logic that’s hard to deny when you truly tune into it.

    For me, as a Christian, it actually aligns with putting things into God’s hands, being grateful for what we already have, and staying open to the ways in which blessings show up. Add belief to that formula, and I’ve found you can attract some pretty amazing things.

    God promised that through faith, we could move mountains, walk on water, and even perform miracles. Sometimes I think the universe—or more accurately, God—wants to give us incredible things… if only we’re willing to receive them. That gift may not always come in the way we want, expect, or even understand—but it comes.

    Let me tell you a little story.

    This past weekend, my son—out of nowhere—decided he wanted to collect all five Constructicon robots from Transformers. (If you’re not a fan, these are robots that also turn into construction vehicles. When you collect all five, they combine into a bigger robot named Devastator. Very dramatic. Very epic.)

    Now, I hadn’t seen these toys in years. They’re from the original Transformers series back in the day. But my son walks into Target, full of confidence and says, “I want a Constructicon Transformer.”

    We didn’t even come for toys. We just needed socks.

    But guess what? We head to the toy aisle, and there—just sitting on the shelf like it was waiting for him—is one lone Constructicon robot.

    Turns out, Hasbro is re-releasing the full set throughout 2025. One down. Four to go. And yes—he now wants all five. (And guess whose wallet is now involved in this divine mission?)

    But here’s what struck me: he didn’t know about the re-release. He hadn’t seen any ads or updates. He just wanted it. Believed it. Spoke it out loud. And poof—there it was.

    Maybe it’s easier to believe in magic and miracles when you’re a kid. Maybe doubt creeps in as we grow older because we’ve experienced more failures and disappointments. But our past doesn’t define our future.

    I love how stockbrokers always say, “Past performance does not guarantee future results.” Well, the same applies to life. Your past doesn’t predict your potential. Your future is still a blank canvas.

    We have the chance to manifest something beautiful. All it takes is belief, vision, and the willingness to keep moving forward—even if the path looks random, awkward, or completely unplanned.

    God and the universe don’t always provide in straight lines. Sometimes the miracle comes during a sock run to Target. Sometimes it shows up as a child’s innocent belief. And sometimes, it’s hidden in between the lines of what we expect.

    We just have to open our eyes, our minds, and our hearts wide enough to see it.

    As for the rest of the Constructicons? With any luck (and a few timely restocks), they’ll be arriving at our doorstep by September or October. But honestly, I already got the bigger gift: a small reminder that belief still holds power—and that miracles can still be found… even in the toy aisle.

  • Fatherhood, Forgiveness & Showing Up: A Father’s Day Reflection

    Happy Father’s Day to all the dads out there!

    The last couple of days, I’ve been reflecting on parenthood. With Father’s Day weekend here, it felt like the right time to share a few thoughts about the transformation that comes with becoming a parent—because for me, parenthood isn’t just part of life, it transforms life.

    Father’s Day, just like Mother’s Day, can bring up all kinds of emotions. For some, it’s a joyful celebration. For others, it’s a day of remembrance or even forgiveness. Whether you’re a dad yourself or someone reflecting on your own father, one thing remains true: fatherhood is complicated, beautiful, and deeply human.

    Here’s the message I want to share—no matter the kind of dad you had (or have been):
    We all try our best.

    Your father did his best.
    You’re doing your best.
    They tried. You tried. We’re all out here trying.

    So wherever you are on that spectrum—whether your relationship with your father was strong or strained—take a moment to be thankful. Cherish the good memories. Forgive where you can. And keep the love in your heart, even if it looks a little different than what you hoped for.

    As for us? Let’s remember we don’t have to be perfect parents. We just need to keep showing up. Be present. Love deeply. And give our kids the kind of love we always wanted ourselves. This isn’t a competition or a scorecard. This is life—and it’s messy, unpredictable, and wonderful.

    Whether you’re guiding your kids or healing from your past, just remember: your presence is powerful. A kind word, a warm hug, a shared laugh—it all matters more than you think.

    So this Father’s Day, give your loved ones the best of you. That’s more than enough.

  • Honoring Real-Life Heroes: Finding the Superhero Within on Memorial Day

    Happy Memorial Day.

    Today in America, we take a moment to honor and remember the brave individuals who made the greatest sacrifice—not just for their families and friends, but for an entire nation. These are people who showed extraordinary courage and selflessness. Their strength came not just from training or duty, but from a mindset rooted in purpose, confidence, and heart.

    They believed in something bigger than themselves—and they acted on it.

    When I think about these heroes, I can’t help but compare them to superheroes. Not the ones with capes, laser eyes, or the ability to fly (though, let’s be honest, that would be cool). I’m talking about real superheroes—the ones defined not by their powers, but by their principles. The ones who embody courage, determination, and a relentless drive to do what’s right, even when it’s hard.

    Truth is, you don’t need super speed or mutant healing to be a hero. Sometimes, it’s just about showing up. Fighting for what you believe in. Standing up for someone else. Pushing through your own pain so someone else can find peace.

    And in that sense, maybe we all have a little superhero in us.

    Some people seem to tap into that inner power more easily than others. But I believe that if we quiet the noise, focus, and truly try, we can all access it. That quiet strength. That spark of resilience. That ability to keep moving forward even when life feels like it’s working overtime to knock us down.

    Even Jesus said we have the power to move mountains and walk on water—we just need to believe.

    Now, I get it. Believing isn’t always easy. Life has a funny way of piling on the doubts, the fears, the setbacks… and sometimes, a mountain of stress, emails, and unpaid bills too. I’ve been there. We all have.

    But here’s the thing: belief doesn’t have to be loud. It can be a whisper. A small choice. A moment of courage. And sometimes, when our own belief wavers, we can help someone else find theirs. Or let someone help us find ours.

    So today, as we honor the heroes who gave everything, let’s also honor the everyday bravery in ourselves and others. Let’s remind ourselves—and each other—that even in a world full of chaos, we still have the power to choose courage, kindness, and hope.

    Because maybe being a hero isn’t about saving the world. Maybe it’s just about showing up with heart.