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  • Finding Ambition: Moving Forward with Courage and Faith

    Finding Ambition: Moving Forward with Courage and Faith

    Sometimes you have to find that ambition—the assertive, “I know what I’m doing” attitude. Too often, we second-guess ourselves because we’re stuck processing all the “what if” scenarios in our minds.

    Think back to Avengers: Infinity War. Dr. Strange used his power to explore millions of possible futures, but he saw only one where they came out on top. He never told Tony Stark what it was, because if he did, it might not have happened. In Endgame, he finally revealed that crucial piece of truth at the moment it mattered most.

    In life, we want the same thing. We want to know the plan—the exact steps from point A to point B. While GPS works beautifully for driving, a life GPS isn’t always so helpful. Life is full of twists, turns, road closures, and accidents you could never predict. If you only depend on that “life GPS,” you’ll always be rerouting, loading, waiting—stuck in place.

    Instead, we need confidence that life itself is guiding us where we need to be. For those who are religious, that confidence may come from God’s presence and direction. For others, it may come from faith in themselves and the belief that persistence pays off. Whatever you call it—ambition, courage, confidence, or persistence—the point is simple: take the step forward.

    What’s the worst-case scenario? Rejection? Someone saying “no”? Missing out on what you wanted? That pain is temporary. What lasts much longer is the regret of never trying, of always wondering “what if?”

    As long as you move forward with the right mindset, right intentions, and right beliefs, things will fall into place. Iron Man didn’t know exactly how to defeat Thanos, but he continued on in good faith, driven by conviction and courage. In the end, he ended up where he needed to be.

    I walk that same path. I don’t always know the exact next step. I feel nervous and uncertain, just like anyone else. But I believe God is with me, guiding me to where I need to be. And that belief pushes me forward.

    So I encourage you: find your source of faith, guidance, and strength—whether it’s God, purpose, or self-belief. Let it fuel your ambition and give you the courage to step into uncharted waters. Move forward boldly. That is where growth begins.

  • When Life Reminds You Who’s Really in Control

    When Life Reminds You Who’s Really in Control

    It’s funny how some things in life feel like coincidences. Or maybe they’re not coincidences at all. Maybe life has a way of showing us exactly what we need to see, hear, or feel—right when we need it most.

    We see it in movies all the time. That magical incident that suddenly points someone to their true calling. And in real life, don’t we often ask for the same thing?
    “God, please give me a sign. Show me what I need to do, what I need to say, who I should marry.”

    And the crazy thing? The universe delivers. God delivers.

    This past Sunday, I walked into church carrying the heavy weight of my financial struggles—feeling like I had nowhere to run or hide. And wouldn’t you know it? The sermon was about living without control. About surrendering to God’s guidance because only He knows the path. Not a path free of pain, suffering, or hardship—but a path that leads us exactly where we’re meant to be.

    Maybe you’re not religious. That’s okay. Call it God, the universe, or just life—it still delivers signs. The question is: are you willing to listen?

    The answers we get aren’t always what we want. Often, the resistance we feel is because the truth runs directly against our desires. And yet, the lesson is the same: we don’t always get what we want in life.

    I teach this to my son all the time. No matter what social media influencers try to sell you or what the latest “manifest your destiny” book promises—you won’t get everything you want. Nobody does.

    Life has its balance. There will be pain, but there will also be joy. There will be suffering, but also freedom. God provides it all—the highs and the lows—because together, they shape us.

    So maybe the best move isn’t to fight for control but to let go. Let God, let the universe, let life take the driver’s seat. Because that’s how we eventually end up where we truly need to be.

  • Why Me? Discovering the Hidden Strength Within

    Why Me? Discovering the Hidden Strength Within

    Sometimes, I know you’ve asked yourself the same question I ask myself all the time: “Why me?”

    This simple question shows up everywhere—in movies, in TV shows, and most often, in the quiet corners of our own minds. It’s that silent question, almost like a sigh, but it carries so much weight.

    It pops up in small, everyday frustrations—like spilling your drink or forgetting where you left your keys—and in the heavy storms of life: not being able to pay the bills, facing divorce, or losing someone you love.

    And yet, here’s the truth: none of it is more than you can handle. God doesn’t give you battles you’re unequipped to face. Yes, in the moment it feels terrible. Yes, the pain, sadness, and suffering are real. But they won’t break you.

    We’ve all heard the saying: “What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger.” It’s overused, maybe even cliché—but it’s survived this long because it’s true.

    The challenges in your life aren’t punishments, and they’re not random. They were placed before you because you already carry the power to overcome them. That hidden power you didn’t know you had—it’s your superpower. Think of every superhero story: the hero discovers their gift only when they’re forced to rise up and face impossible odds. That’s you. That’s all of us.

    It may not happen overnight. Just like the X-Men needed years to train their mutant powers, we too need time to sharpen and learn how to wield our strength. But it’s there, waiting inside you.

    Your difficulties are just a snapshot of your present life—not the whole story. Yes, you need to accept the present, but your future? It’s still unwritten, still open. And there is always a way forward. Sometimes the resolution doesn’t look like the one you hoped or dreamed of, but if you’re open to it, there will be light at the end of the tunnel.

    From a faith perspective, sometimes God’s plan carries you through challenges in ways you didn’t expect. He’s given you the superpower, but He may guide you to use it differently than you imagined. Even Superman has kryptonite. Strength doesn’t mean invincibility—it means being able to keep going, even with limits.

    The most important thing? Stay open. Don’t cling stubbornly to just one outcome. Life offers many routes from point A to point B. If you’re willing to take the detours, to circle around when necessary, you won’t stay stuck. You won’t be forever haunted by “Why me?” Instead, you’ll move forward, one step at a time, with the power that was already inside you.

  • Manifesting Miracles, Transformers, and the Law of Attraction (Through the Eyes of a Kid and a Dad)

    Manifesting Miracles, Transformers, and the Law of Attraction (Through the Eyes of a Kid and a Dad)

    So recently, I was reading about the Law of Attraction—not the art of seduction, but the idea of attracting the things you want in life through mindset and belief.

    Some people think of it as manifesting something out of thin air, like magic or voodoo. Others dismiss it as pure hocus-pocus. But I believe there’s a truth woven into this mindset—a kind of spiritual logic that’s hard to deny when you truly tune into it.

    For me, as a Christian, it actually aligns with putting things into God’s hands, being grateful for what we already have, and staying open to the ways in which blessings show up. Add belief to that formula, and I’ve found you can attract some pretty amazing things.

    God promised that through faith, we could move mountains, walk on water, and even perform miracles. Sometimes I think the universe—or more accurately, God—wants to give us incredible things… if only we’re willing to receive them. That gift may not always come in the way we want, expect, or even understand—but it comes.

    Let me tell you a little story.

    This past weekend, my son—out of nowhere—decided he wanted to collect all five Constructicon robots from Transformers. (If you’re not a fan, these are robots that also turn into construction vehicles. When you collect all five, they combine into a bigger robot named Devastator. Very dramatic. Very epic.)

    Now, I hadn’t seen these toys in years. They’re from the original Transformers series back in the day. But my son walks into Target, full of confidence and says, “I want a Constructicon Transformer.”

    We didn’t even come for toys. We just needed socks.

    But guess what? We head to the toy aisle, and there—just sitting on the shelf like it was waiting for him—is one lone Constructicon robot.

    Turns out, Hasbro is re-releasing the full set throughout 2025. One down. Four to go. And yes—he now wants all five. (And guess whose wallet is now involved in this divine mission?)

    But here’s what struck me: he didn’t know about the re-release. He hadn’t seen any ads or updates. He just wanted it. Believed it. Spoke it out loud. And poof—there it was.

    Maybe it’s easier to believe in magic and miracles when you’re a kid. Maybe doubt creeps in as we grow older because we’ve experienced more failures and disappointments. But our past doesn’t define our future.

    I love how stockbrokers always say, “Past performance does not guarantee future results.” Well, the same applies to life. Your past doesn’t predict your potential. Your future is still a blank canvas.

    We have the chance to manifest something beautiful. All it takes is belief, vision, and the willingness to keep moving forward—even if the path looks random, awkward, or completely unplanned.

    God and the universe don’t always provide in straight lines. Sometimes the miracle comes during a sock run to Target. Sometimes it shows up as a child’s innocent belief. And sometimes, it’s hidden in between the lines of what we expect.

    We just have to open our eyes, our minds, and our hearts wide enough to see it.

    As for the rest of the Constructicons? With any luck (and a few timely restocks), they’ll be arriving at our doorstep by September or October. But honestly, I already got the bigger gift: a small reminder that belief still holds power—and that miracles can still be found… even in the toy aisle.

  • Everyone Dies—So Why Are You Still Worried About What They Think?

    Everyone Dies—So Why Are You Still Worried About What They Think?

    Let’s talk about something nobody likes to talk about: death.

    Yep, that word alone makes most people squirm. But hear me out—death can actually give us one of the clearest perspectives on how to live.

    I was listening to a podcast today, and the host said something that stopped me in my tracks: “Everyone dies. You will die. The people you think are judging you? They’ll die too.”

    At first, it sounded a little dark. But the more I thought about it, the more it made sense. We’re so caught up in worrying what others think of us—but most people aren’t even thinking about us in the first place!

    Think about it: how often do you spend your day obsessing over someone else’s outfit, decisions, or what they posted online? Be honest. Even the people closest to us—our partners, kids, parents—aren’t thinking about us 24/7. Most of the time, we’re all just trying to get through the day.

    Try this: track how often you think about specific people during your day. Not just a passing thought, but genuine, intentional focus. You’ll probably find that the majority of your thoughts are centered around your own tasks: getting ready, driving, working, figuring out what to eat, and so on.

    When I wake up in the morning, I’m not immediately thinking “I love my son” (although I do). My first thoughts are usually, “Time to get up, make breakfast, pack his lunch, and get him to school.” I think of him because I have to interact with him—not because I’m analyzing every choice he’s making or silently judging how well he brushed his teeth.

    And yet, when it comes to our own lives, we assume everyone is watching. We imagine there’s a spotlight on us all the time, and if we make the wrong move, people will notice and talk. But the truth? They’re not.

    Even people with thousands of followers online aren’t on our radar unless there’s a specific reason. Just last week, I only thought of a semi-famous person because I was considering reaching out for a speaking opportunity. Otherwise? Total non-factor in my mind.

    Why do we do this? Maybe because as kids, we were always being watched—by parents, teachers, authority figures. We were raised to think our every move was being monitored and judged. And now, as adults, we’ve internalized that belief.

    But here’s the liberating truth: most people aren’t paying attention. And the ones who are? They won’t be around forever.

    So why let the fear of judgment from people who won’t even remember your name stop you from living fully?

    Let’s take it even further: one day, every single person you’re afraid might judge you… will die. Their opinions won’t matter in the long run. And on their deathbed, they probably won’t be thinking about you at all. Harsh? Maybe. But freeing? Absolutely.

    At the end of the day, the only person who has to live with your decisions is you.
    Not your boss.
    Not your classmates.
    Not random people online.
    Just you.

    So ask yourself: are you willing to live with the decisions you’ve made based on someone else’s opinions—or worse, their imaginary judgment?

    I know I’m not.
    I’m betting on myself.
    I’m choosing to live in a way that I can feel proud of, not based on someone else’s fleeting attention.

    Because the people I think are judging me today?
    They might not be around in 30 years.
    Or 10.
    Or one.
    Or even tomorrow.

    So stop letting ghosts-in-their-own-making run your life.
    Live boldly. Love freely.
    Laugh at yourself often.

    And when in doubt, remember: other people think about you far less than you think they do.